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T writes about policy, systems, survivor leadership, and what it means to stay in the fight when the fight keeps changing. Read the latest reflection below.
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A timely reflection for Domestic Violence Awareness Month—and for every organization working to turn awareness into meaningful support.
Event Planning
What to Look for When Hiring a Domestic Violence Speaker or Planning a Workshop
What to prioritize when booking a domestic violence speaker or workshop, so your event leads to lasting change.
Workplace Support
How to Support Domestic Violence Survivors in the Workplace: A Trauma-Conscious Guide for Leaders
A trauma-conscious guide for leaders on recognizing the signs, leading with care, and putting real safety accommodations in place.
Power and Control Wheel · Part 2
Signs of Economic Abuse and Post-Separation Abuse: How Leverage Replaces Connection
How money, custody, privilege, and intimidation keep survivors trapped, and why leaving does not automatically end the danger.
Power and Control Wheel · Part 1
The Power and Control Wheel Explained: 4 Psychological Abuse Tactics Most People Miss
Emotional abuse, isolation, minimizing and blaming, and coercion: the psychological tactics that come long before a hand is ever raised.
DVAM Reflection
What Disney Never Taught Us About Love
What gets lost in abuse, how the stories we grew up on quietly normalized it, and what it will take to change course.